“A special event for singles, lovers, and everything in between.” – Perfect Match Event Promotion Since I started my blog, I have found a passion for writing; I wanted to try different writing styles and formats to see what suits me best. So, for this week’s post, I have a short article and summary of my experience at Barcode777’s “Perfect Match” event. I was curious to participate when I heard Barcode777 (@barrcode777) was hosting its first speed dating event. “Have us set you up with your perfect match, whether you're looking for a lover, a friend, or getting to know your partner better. Leave the details up to us.” How intriguing and rare to see a modern day matchmaking event. Coincidentally enough, I had already gotten a date out of one of their previous events. I went to their launch party back in January, and thanks to the “We’re not Really Strangers” cards that were laid out around the venue, I easily conversed with a stranger. We played the game, got to know each other, and by the end of it, I was asked out on a date—quite a lovely experience. So I was excited to see what was in store, seeing as matchmaking was this event's primary purpose. Taking on a mix of speed dating and matchmaking, each participant filled out a personality quiz before the event. I was pleasantly surprised to receive a handwritten love letter in the mail, assigning me to a table at the event. This table would then include my most compatible correspondents, those considered to be my closest matches. Initially, I was skeptical. I wondered how I would accurately be matched to anyone with only a few vague questions, such as “given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?” to which I (obviously) answered, Timothée Chalamet. I was intrigued and had many questions to ask. So, I reached out to the creators, Anora (@anoradotca) and Thalia (@thaliaclacken), for further clarification. We met for coffee, and over our friendly conversation, here’s what I learned about Barcode777 and the “Perfect Match” event. Barcode777 is a collective community “pushing the boundaries and reinventing what a night out means,” emphasizing “creating safe, fun events that showcase local talent, businesses, and creatives.” The girls revealed that it was born out of frustration from the typical night out in Edmonton. “I don't want to go to the same club every single night, see the same people, [hear the] same music,” said Anora. She found herself inspired by events from around the world. Having lived in Toronto for a year, she went to underground parties, events, and pop-ups. She had also attended these events in places such as the UK, and found that Edmonton was missing out on those experiences. So she took matters into her own hands, but that wouldn’t come without Thalia's help, who also wished Edmonton had more to offer. The two have been working together since the late summer of 2022. What began as a collaboration between Thalia, a photographer (@dreaminfilm.studio), and Anora’s vintage re-selling account (@ulltrasweet) soon became more. Getting along instantly and sharing a strong work ethic, the two have been working on creative projects and putting events together ever since. They hope to expand from local to national events, first aiming for capital cities such as Montréal, Vancouver, and Toronto. Barcode777’s ultimate focus and goal is bringing diverse groups of people together. After initially planning an event for couples, the two thought hosting an event for everyone instead would be best. “Let’s do something for single people or those not in relationships [but] looking for friendships,” they said. “Perfect Match” simplifies dating and meeting people, breaking barriers, and making connections more accessible. I loved their inclusive approach and was even more excited to attend the event. As I was getting ready, I followed their colour-coded dress code for the night, choosing to wear black as it implied “it’s complicated.” As you all know, my relationship status might not be complicated, but I certainly can be. When I got to the venue, I immediately found my assigned table. People started showing up, and shortly after, the speed dating began. Everyone at my table quickly shared what they were looking for, some relationships and some only friendships. Around the room, there were cards inspired by the “We’re Not Really Strangers” game. The cards allowed everyone to ease into deeper conversation. It was a great way of getting to know people. The speed dating went on for a couple of hours. People mingled, switched tables, and took photos at the lovely decorated venue. Some people went upstairs to the bar lounge, grabbed a drink or danced with friends, and later continued speed dating throughout the night. To be honest, I went into this event with no expectations. When I got there, I had the surprising realization that I might not entirely be ready for a relationship after all. I noticed this through speaking with others, who seemed much more confident and eager about dating, which scared me. I got nervous about forming new connections with people that were open and ready for a relationship. I had been searching for love and romance over the past couple of years, but meeting people who wanted relationships, made me realize that maybe I don’t. A close friend might be right, saying I only want what I can’t have. That being either emotionally unavailable people or people who simply don't want to date me. I hope to figure this out more; maybe I don’t want what I think I want. I might not have found my soulmate, the love of my life, or Timothée Chalamet, but I did find a new introspection on my love life. At the end of the night, my “Perfect Match” was a fantastic night out at a Barcode777 event.
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